Weaving Urban Fabric: Nurturing Relationships and Connection Initiatives

It started with a conversation in Seattle. I had been told I should “really meet Jenna Smith from Montreal” and we were at the same conference. We grabbed some time together to chat about my wonderings around starting a fresh expression of StreetLevel, the Canadian network of front-line workers that had been an important part of my story when it was active. Jenna mentioned Daria Nardozza, the person building a Domestic Network within Kentro, a connecting point for Canadian Christian relief and development organizations and professionals. She suggested we meet. 

Jenna, Daria and I went on to connect via a zoom call. We introduced ourselves and learned about each other’s work. We noticed a shared desire to organize and bring people together. The time went too fast, so we determined to meet again. Not long after, Daria invited me to join her Advisory Team. I invited her to attend Story Day: Hospitality, an event inspired by StreetLevel. We both said yes. 

Daria flew to Toronto from Montreal to attend Story Day last fall. We then spent the evening around a table with a variety of friends. She slept over at my house. The next morning she and Carl Amouzou (another friend who travelled to Toronto for Story Day) joined us at The Dale, the community organization and church I work at, for our breakfast to go and some impromptu aerobics led by a community member. I always find spending concentrated time with others helps to deepen relationship, and this was exactly that kind of experience. 

It has been a year since the inception of Kentro’s Domestic Network. During that time, many people have helped in the process of discerning how to draw charities and churches together. Meanwhile, I have continued to collaboratively work with a number of people to animate gatherings for those engaged in addressing poverty and injustice in the spirit of StreetLevel. What I love is how these things overlap and hold space for the other.

While at a recent Kentro Forum, I shared about what Jane Jacobs refers to as the “weaving of an urban fabric”. One definition of weaving is, “the act of making something by combining different parts”. I believe there is a lot of weaving going on right now. People from a variety of contexts are seeking connection. The shape of the fabric is still emerging, which is both scary and exciting. I think that what will ensure a tight weave is our relationships. It can all start with a conversation, just like the one Jenna and I had that day in Seattle. 

Building the Trust of a City Street

Imagine that the sun is shining and there is a light breeze as you and I set out on a walk around Parkdale, a Toronto neighbourhood. This is the place that The Dale inhabits, a section of the city that is in the west-end, and just north of Lake Ontario. We start at 201 Cowan Avenue, an address that belongs to Epiphany and St Mark Anglican Church, but is used as a sort of “commons” for a variety of organizations, including Parkdale Neighbourhood Land Trust, Greenest City, Flick the Switch Art Studios, a social enterprise kitchen called Aangen, and The Dale.

We meander across the street to a park with a concrete wading pool, a play structure, a concrete table that gets used either for ping pong or sunbathing, and the HOPE Community Garden in which The Dale has a plot. I share that we tend to grow a lot of herbs, lettuce, and some tomatoes, though last year we tried our hand at miniature pumpkins. Right now, the garden lays fallow, though it will soon be time to plant. To me, this spot feels like a bit of an oasis.

I invite you to walk north on Cowan to Queen Street West, one of the main thoroughfares through Parkdale. There is a community centre to our left, and a Public Library on the right. We run into a friend who is sitting on a bench. He tells us about what is being served for lunch at St. Francis Table (most of us refer to it as “The Table”), a Franciscan Friar run restaurant where you can get a good meal for $1. I suggest we head that way in order to notice the contrast between St. Francis Table and the very hip and high-end restaurants that litter the same block.

This dichotomy is apparent throughout our walk. Once one of the most affluent neighbourhoods in the city, Parkdale shifted to be known as gritty and well-acquainted with poverty. While there were many contributing factors to this, two big ones were the building of the Gardiner Expressway, a highway to our south that made people feel cut off from the lake, and the deinstitutionalization of mental health care (the Centre for Addiction and Mental Health, once Queen Street Mental Health is very close by), which meant psychiatric survivors were released and subsequently sought home in the area. Now Parkdale is a study in gentrification- the process by which the character of a poor urban area is changed by wealthier people moving in, changing housing, and attracting new businesses.

I point out a few things as we walk: the popular vintage store called Public Butter, a poster for a protest about affordable housing, the yellow box that looks reminiscent of a Canada Post mailbox but is a receptacle for used needles. We stop to say hello to a group of people in the parkette beside the Health Centre, all of whom are community members of The Dale. One person comes out from the bushes, where they are sleeping rough. Another engages with you about where you are from and tells you an embarrassing story about me. We laugh. We comment on the nice weather before fist bumping a goodbye.

From here we walk south along a very residential street. I point out how you can tell if one of the mansion like homes is a single-family dwelling or a rooming house. We notice young families, a statue of Mary in a front yard, and Tibetan monks in burgundy robes. I suggest we get some Momos, Tibetan dumplings from a place called Loga’s Corner. I introduce you to the owner who gives a lesson on how to eat one, and graciously adds a few extra to our order.

We wave at the proprietor of the laundromat, chat with people hanging out in a bus shelter, and stand in awe of the woman who feeds the pigeons and has birds hanging out on her shoulders and head. We walk along Jameson Avenue, a street lined with mid-rise apartment buildings. Eventually we end up back on Queen Street West. I invite us to stop, close our eyes and take a deep breath, taking active notice of the sounds and smells of the neighbourhood. As we end up back where we started, we discuss your questions. I share a few more stories. We talk about the obvious diversity and resulting richness of Parkdale. We depart with a hug.

Jane Jacobs said, “The trust of a city street is formed over time from many, many little public sidewalk contacts… Most of it is ostensibly trivial but the sum is not trivial at all.” The work of getting to know one’s neighbourhood takes intentionality. For me, walking has been integral to becoming connected to and rooted in Parkdale. It is something I have done since 2007 and that as a Dale team we do on the regular. The arguably trivial moments have led to many profound interactions, deep friendships, and a lot of opportunity to love and be loved. I am always glad to walk and love the opportunity to do so together.