Now that it is truly official, we are able to let everyone know that this week Dion moved into a spacious and bright private room in a Long-Term Care facility, just a short drive from our home. Quite honestly this feels like the impossible has been made possible. Since Dion’s hospital admission in August, we have repeatedly heard that what we need is not available: there are not enough Personal Support Workers, no more hours of care, the system is not set-up for a person in a situation like ours. We have gone into meetings feeling hopeful, only to leave deflated. Nearly every step has felt like an up-hill battle. Which is why, until entering the doors of this new place, we felt cautious about believing it was going to happen.
As you can likely imagine, this is the beginning of a massive transition for our family. There is a shadow side to this solution: we each live in a different place, something brought on by the disease that is MS. As relieved as we are for Long-Term Care, this is not where we imagined ourselves at this stage of life. I do believe though that the concept of home need not be limited to a single place, something we now have the opportunity to explore.
For those of you following our story will know, Dion and I are people of faith. We look toward and believe in Jesus. It has not been our experience that this makes life easy. Many of our prayers have not been answered in the way that we would have hoped. We are well acquainted with grief. Over the last few months we have chosen, often by the skin of our teeth, to lean into trusting that we would be provided for. We could not see the way forward. And yet we never were left alone. I am certain that we have been carried to this moment. God has used so many of you to participate in this work, and for all of it we are thankful.
I was looking at the first email I sent to people when Dion went into hospital. At the end I wrote this: MS has been a difficult journey, one that just got harder. Thank you for walking this road with us. As believers in the importance of community, we are grateful to our village for being such a source of light and love. As Henri Nouwen once said, we are trying to “be patient and trust that the treasure we look for is hidden in the ground on which we stand”. May it be so.”
It has become so.
7 thoughts on “A New Chapter”
I am so thankful that this day has come. It reminds me of a Proverb: “Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but desire fulfilled is a tree of life.” Proverbs 13:12
Hope has been restored for your family that a solution could be found and may this solution ultimately prove to be a tree of life for you all, in some as yet to be revealed, and mysterious way!
If there are 3 people who could instruct us by example of how to broaden our understanding of home it is you, Dion and Kate!
You folks have my deep, deep respect. May this new chapter bring unexpected blessings and joy.
thankful for this provision & praying for all the adjustments to this new stage and form of being family… blessings
I am happy for you that Dion is in a place close to your home. We will pray things will go well. Yes we do not always get answers to prayer as we would like. We have know that for years, but He knows what is best for us. Love you John and Martha.
My heart goes out to you all Erinn. So glad the Lord is looking after your family in all of this. I thank you and Dion for your honesty and transparency in sharing this journey. God is who He said He is!…that is the truth no matter what…that is how we live…faith in Him. I will continue to pray for God’s provision and protection for all of you.
Thank God we serve a risen Savior who hears and answers our prayer. We have been praying for you and your loved ones. Praise His wonderful Name. Praying your strength.
Love Judy and Angela